How far would you go?
#limits #BDSM #submission
Guest Post by Lisabet Sarai
This month, our group topic is “Pushing Limits”. This theme
could be addressed from a wide variety of perspectives: pushing one’s limits as
an author, by trying new genres or formats; pushing one’s physical limits (I’m
thinking of KD’s and Ashe’s pole dancing classes); pushing the limits of
society’s acceptance for erotica. However, as I’m first up, I decided to take
the more obvious route and discuss the topic as it applies to dominance and
submission.
Although I have a reputation for publishing hot BDSM erotica, I have only modest real-world experience. I’ve been involved in one D/s relationship which was quite serious and intense but which lasted, in its active phase, only about two years. Furthermore, during that entire period my Master and I lived in different cities, and early on, on different coasts. So, the amount of time we actually spent together “in scene” probably totals no more than a month or two. Nevertheless, that was enough to profoundly influence my sexuality, my world view, indeed my life. Lisabet Sarai very likely would not have existed if not for GCS, to whom many of my books are dedicated.
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