A few weeks ago, I made a flippant blog post about sexual harassment and now I’m realizing that I was seriously wrong and apologize. I never realized the extent that men have been victimizing women, that is so alien to me.
My wife has said that she’s often been hit on but usually shuts a guy down immediately. She’s a big women’s libber and doesn’t take shit from anyone. She was not surprised by the number of men who have used their status and power to force women into situations that they were uncomfortable with.
We’re in the Lifestyle and as hard as it might be to believe, if there is harassment then it’s possibly due to the women rather than the men. Ninety-nine percent of the time, we’ve only ran around with other swingers and I have to admit, I didn’t realize this was happening or at least to the extent it was happening.
As a guy, most (all) of our decisions are made by our dick. That’s why most guys give their dick a name as you wouldn’t want a total stranger to be making all your decisions for you.
All jokes aside, we men are assholes and it’s time to make changes to the ways we deal with women.
Merry Christmas and Happy New Years – feel free to substitute the appropriate occasions for your country and/or belief. Make a pledge that you’ll do better as I am.
Thanks Larry. For the happy wishes, and for the apology. The most important thing is to become aware. After that, you can start changing things.
In the lifestyle too, but my sexperiences (I promise, the first ‘s’ wasn’t meant to be, but I think it fits well, so I left it!) are sdifferent I guess. I’m no Foxy, no Domme, and thus… am being taken advantage of at times. It is not an easy thing.
You’ve got the people who think that because you’re a liberated woman you’re always going to be a yes, and then you’ve got the people who think less of you when you show you’re a liberated woman. Sigh!
Merry Christmas to you and Foxy. Hope you enjoy the holidays, whatever it is you celebrate!
XO
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Thanks Dawn. I usually look at things from my warped sense of humor and will often step on my dick with a poorly thought out comment. Merry Christmas to you and yours. F&L
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That’s what happens when it’s so long, you can step on it 😉
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