I’m friends with a “straight” woman at my day job, and I’ll call her Susan. She’s not an office wife but just someone I’m good friends with. She’s an attractive mature woman with big blond hair. She wears stripper shoes all the time, possibly because she’s only about five feet tall, but it is a good look for me.
Like most swingers, we hide our other life as straights look down on us for it. Plus, I’ve tried to resist daytime romances as it often ends with stained back seats and irate husbands, which I don’t need in my work-a-day life.
Our conversations generally end up talking about sex, not phone sex sex but sexual topics. My office buddy has been divorced for a long time and has a son. The other day she asked me what I’d think if she decided to date another woman?
I replied with the typical guy response of, “As long as I get to watch!” When she asked why do men like that, I responded with I have no idea but it is so exciting. She went on to tell me that every guy she’s dated has turned out to be a jerk and so she’s been thinking of trying women.
I then said, “Honestly, why don’t you give it a try? There’s no downside and you may like it.”
She said that she’d asked her son if he would mind her in a relationship with a woman and he gave her the disgusted child reply, “Mom!”
Then Susan looked at me and asked, “Do you think your wife would be interested in going out with me?”
We work in an office building together and has seen my wife a couple of times. Foxy is a closet nudist and is typically minimally dressed. At six feet, she’s all leg and likes short skirts to show off her assets. Plus, being a member of the No Bra Club, it’s generally evident that the girls aren’t strapped in.
Her question about dating my wife, floored me for a minute? On the one hand, I’d love to see them in the rack together but that may start something that doesn’t end well for my job. I wasn’t sure what to say and punted with, “Possibly, but you need to ask her.”
When you’re in the Lifestyle, some guys will pimp out their wife for the opportunity to bed your wife. They will come up to you at a party and leave their wife hanging on you as they subtly work their way to your wife. While we abhor the practice, it happens more than you’d like.
I mentioned to Foxy that one of the women I work with wanted to get into her pants. We had the obligatory question and answer period as she tried to picture who she was and what she looked like. Their relationship is still up in the air as I’m waiting for Wifey to show up at her desk while looking for me.
This is a long lead in to why girls are more likely to have a girlfriend rather than a guy have a boyfriend, with apologies to Kdaddy, one of my blogger buddies.
My personal opinion is that women are raised to be bisexual and men are not. Girls hold hands, play kissy face, and go to the bathroom together. While men are raised to be more aloof and stand alone as our masculine culture requires.
Foxy and I started dating before she was twenty-one and her proclivity for bisexuality was pretty evident. In the swing scene, she’d typically rather be with another woman unless the guy would make a Shetland pony jealous.
What got me thinking about this whole girl-on-girl thing was an article on BBC I read this morning. It seems according to surveys; women are becoming more interested in other women. https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20210610-why-more-women-identify-as-sexually-fluid-than-men
I’m Larry Archer and I write erotic stories for the huddled and yearning masses. Foxy and I are swingers in real life and I write about the things we do and see. While the Lifestyle is not for everyone, it’s been fun for us. My smut is explicit and hardcore but with a somewhat plot. My porn stories are generally positive and fun as this reflects how enjoyable swinging has been to us. If you’re interested in checking out my stories, I publish at all the typical outlets.