At a fellow bloggers site, we were talking about how people perceive what you do and the reaction to it. It reminded me of a funny story that happened during one of our New Year’s Pajama Parties.

We have these huge (50-60 couples) pajama parties at New Years and dealing with 100+ people is sometimes a trip but it’s worth it. The only downside to having house parties is that you don’t really get a chance to enjoy them until late at night, when things quieten down.

My wife and I are constantly cruising the house making sure everyone is having fun (except us), there are plenty of towels in the bathroom, and fuck towels by the beds, food, and drink, etc. etc.

Anyway at a party, wifey goes into our master bedroom to check the towel situation. We change out almost all of the light bulbs for low wattage (almost night-lights) to make the rooms dim but you can see.

She walks into the bathroom dressing area which is adjoining the bedroom and next to one wall that is all closet with mirrored doors.

As she starts to walk in, out of the dark a hand reaches out of the closet and grabs her. She lets out a piercing scream after being grabbed in the dark, which causes me to come bounding up the stairs fearing the worst.

As it turns out, it was only a cuckold we know who was hiding in the closet as he watched his wife having sex with someone else. He just wanted her to watch his wife and didn’t dawn on him that it would be a shock.

He loves to watch and the more it seems like peeking in through a window the better he likes it. Sure he could have just stood by the bed but for him jerking off in the closet as he peeks out through a crack in the door is that much better.

Of course everyone knows how they are and nobody thinks anything about it. This is one of the nice things about swinging is that you can be free and open about most anything and people will not condemn you if you do something that is “not normal”.