Wife swapping seems to have started in the 1950s if you believe the folklore. Peaking in the 70’s and 80’s, swinging has been damped down by STDs and COVID but is still alive. The other day, I was researching divorce rates among swingers and was surprised by some of the comments left by responders.
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It always amazes me that people make comments about how disgusting it is yet seem to have no issue with having a secret affair with a coworker. Why is it okay to fuck your cubemate, yet it’s wrong to openly have sex outside the marriage with the knowledge and consent of your partner?
My wife and I have engaged in knocking boots with others virtually all of our marriage. Foxy and I are what I would call traditional swingers and follow the unwritten rules of Lifestyle couples. We are not in an open marriage, and we don’t cheat on each other, but we enjoy relationships with other like-minded couples.
Every couple has to make rules they can live with and one which works for their situation. From all I can see, swinging works for most in the scene. Swinging will not fix a bad marriage, and I don’t think it will. Happy and secure couples seem to make the best fit for the alternative lifestyle.
According to Open Marriage Divorce Statistics by Lorena Castillo, the divorce rate among swingers is 2.8%.
“Couples that engage in swinging (one form of open relationships) have a divorce rate of just 2.8%.”
Our experience mirrors that percentage. I’ve only seen a small handful of couples getting a divorce, yet fifty percent of “straight” people call it quits within a few years.
Initially, I started writing erotic stories as a way to talk about things we’ve seen and done during our travels with the throw your house keys in a bowl crowd. Visiting clubs and house parties across the country reinforced our feeling that swingers everywhere are alike.
Most of the characters in my stories are based upon someone we know, except fictionalized to avoid outing them. Writing a real person into my stories makes it easy to picture how they would react to a situation as I’ve seen them do it.
Swingers have a hilarious contempt for high and mighty strangers. They delight in embarrassing or irritating straights we encounter. The most common is early morning breakfast at a Denny’s or iHop style restaurant. For some unknown reason, house parties always start around midnight. You’d think if people wanted to get some strange stuff, they’d start early.
A house party typically breaks up at about 3 A.M. A group will end up at a local all-night restaurant to discuss the party and just gab. A big percentage of women are exhibitionists, and a house party gives them the excuse to show off.
The show is always great when the group shows up, with most of the women minimally dressed in virtually non-existent skirts. All it takes is a disgusted look from a churchgoer grasping her pearls to get them started.
Most of my stories involve swingers in one fashion or another and reflect the fun times we’ve had attending house parties, swing clubs, and swingers conventions. My stories are explicit and tend to be romantic erotica, as that’s our experience.
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I’m Larry Archer, a simple writer of smut stories in both audiobook, print, and electronic format. Foxy and I are swingers in real life, and I write about what we do and see. While the Lifestyle is not for everyone, it’s been fun for us. My smut is explicit and hardcore but with a somewhat plot. My porn stories are generally positive and fun, as this reflects how enjoyable swinging has been to us. If you’re interested in checking out my stories, I publish at all the typical outlets but recommend Kinky Literature for all your erotica.
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Seems as though swinging could just as well be called “Husband Exchange”.
I’m sure Foxy gets a kick out of seeing you drill some sexy babe. ;^)
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You may say that facetiously, but I think you’re right. While she’s never outright pimped for me, Foxy will subtly encourage me to party with someone she thinks I’ll like. Even when we were dating, I was carrying on with typically two or three married women with her consent. She would laugh and say since she wasn’t giving me any, I should be getting it somewhere. When we first got in the Lifestyle, she arranged a threesome with the real life version of Chrissy, who was straight at the time. All in all, Foxy’s a keeper.
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