Becoming a Butt Slut

Today, I ran across a really good article on anal sex by Clementine Morrigan that I wanted to pass along to my peeps. Plus, I learned something about butt-sex that I guess I knew but didn’t know the details.

We butt fuck a lot, and it’s always surprising that people complain about anal sex being a pain in the ass! But, I think they are just doing it wrong.

Clementine’s blog post, “Becoming a Butt Slut,” is a humorous look at anal sex but didn’t really share the details of how you go about taking it up the ass or giving it to your significant other. I’ll offer what I’ve learned that can possibly help you do the dirty deed.
Start by easing a finger into your ass during sex. Depending on how uptight you are, take each step slowly. While you’re having sex, take your finger and play with your ass. Gently at first but see if you can ease your finger into the first joint.

Be sure and trim your fingernails to avoid possible injury, at least while you’re learning. Wifey always wears her fingernails short and rounded to avoid hurting her backdoor.
As you become more comfortable sticking your finger in your ass, work it deeper until you can take the whole digit. Lube will help, but once you’re comfortable, you can probably do it without lube.

For the guy, having your partner rub your cock with her finger through the perineum is really good. The perineum is the wall between your pussy and your ass.

I recommend that the girl or bottom use his/her finger as they will know if it is painful or not rather than the top or the guy. The trick is to go slowly until you get more comfortable with a finger in your rear. If you do this during sex, you will find that its easier as your attention will be elsewhere.

Once you can take a finger up your ass, go for two or maybe a vibrator or small dildo. Always wash your toys and fingers before and after.

If the girl practices alone, she is not under pressure to perform and it may be better to Jill off by yourself until you get comfortable with the whole experience.

Once you discover that it feels good to have a finger or toy up your back door, then its time to take the plunge, so to speak.

Initially, I recommend that you try anal sex in the spoon position, with both of you on your side. By being on your side, it’s easier to control your strokes as your not fighting your weight.

Using lube on your finger, work the finger into your ass and get it greased up. Finger yourself until you are relaxed before trying the real thing.

The guy will be in back and SLOWLY work the head of his cock into your ass. Take little short strokes and go a little deeper every time until you feel the head pop in.

Your ass has two sphincter muscles, inner and outer. The outer muscle you can control and is the one that keeps you from going number 2 in your undies.

The inner sphincter is involuntary (you can’t control it) and is always contracted (squeezed up). The inner sphincter is the one that holds the keys to the kingdom.

Once you feel the head pop in, the outer sphincter will be holding your cock right behind the head or right past the helmet.

At this point, STOP! And do nothing. Just lay together with the head of your cock in her ass. Now’s a good time to play with her tits.

Try not to move for about a minute or so and let her ass get used to the head of your dick in her. If you are successful in butt-fucking her and I’m sure you will be, this initial phase will be a lot faster as you will not be tensed up when you have more experience.

Now is a good time to kiss her and play with her boobs, while she’s getting used to your cock. Now, slowly take longer and longer strokes to get more of your dick up her ass.

The key is slowly, and I can’t repeat this often enough. If you’d really like to ass fuck your wife, girlfriend, significant other, then you are going to have to take it slowly cause if you fuck up, you may have blown your chance.

Once she gets used to it, things will get a lot easier.

If everything goes according to plan, you should be able to work your dick all the way in her hole and start to fuck her.

Just remember to take things slowly until she gets used to your cock up her ass. If it’s pleasurable, everytime you do the dirty deed, it will get easier and quicker.

Remember to wash up before switching back to the front hole to minimize chances of infection.

Good Luck and Happy Butt-Fucking!

Remember after a good butt-fucking, read a dirty story from Larry Archer.