Being a cuckold or Hotwife is often associated with the swinging lifestyle and seems to become more popular every day. Today’s definition is a lot different than that of the 1950’s and more mainstream.

A Hotwife is a married woman, often older, who has sex with men, while her husband watches or she tells him about it later. For both parties, it is very erotic and pleasurable.

Two of our closest couples are Hotwife and cuckold. I’m often the Bull or the man who satisfies the Hotwife, while her hubby watches.

Both of the couples are similar, late forties with an extremely hot wife (aka Hotwife). Both are blonde, large breasts, and a shapely body. One couple lives close to us, and the other is in another state.

Neither man has been with my wife, but both of the women have. The guys just enjoy watching their wife with another man or woman. One of the guys likes to hide in the closet to watch his wife. Certainly, it would be okay for him to stand by the bed and watch but he likes to pretend that he’s spying on his wife, while she’s with another man.

At times she will seduce a straight guy, and then the cuckold has to actually hide in the closet to keep from freaking out the man, who thinks he’s with a cheating wife.

At house parties, the guy will joke about hiding to watch his wife and no one cares or thinks he’s strange. Since they only live about fifteen minutes from us, they will often come over so that she can have sex with us.

In the old days being a cuckold was a put-down but in today’s swinger’s lifestyle, it is just another kink.

The cuckold loves to hear his wife tell him about how her Bull fucked her and what a good lay he is. Even those of us who are not cuckolds, it’s fun to watch your spouse getting laid.

With us, it is sex and not love, so the enjoyment is from a purely sexual perspective and not as a lover. It’s the same way with swinging in general, you have sex with someone but always go home with your partner.

Often couples who are not into swinging will pretend during sex to being with another person. Some even go so far as to go to a bar and pretend to pick up their spouse, like she was a total stranger.

Of course, there are also couples who go to a bar and sit separately so that the wife is available for men to pick up, not knowing that her husband is watching the entire time.

Then depending on the couple, the wife may just flirt with the guys, make out in the backseat of a car, or go home with the stranger she just seduced.

There are a lot of ways to play the cuckold – Hotwife game and they are all fun for everyone involved.